Incorporating something borrowed into the wedding day symbolizes borrowed happiness, or continued good luck from a long-married couple. Most people, for this reason, borrow something from a long-married friend or relative. It is recommended that after the wedding, one person is assigned to returning this item to its owner, in order that it remain borrowed-- not stolen! A great person for this job is often a wedding attendant or the mother-of-the-bride. Additionally, be sure to write a thank-you letter after the wedding!
Some great ideas for borrowed items include the traditional jewelery, sewing a father or grandfather's silk handkercheif (as long as it isn't flu or cold season) into the bridal gown, or borrowing a family member's ceremonial book (Bible, Torah, etc.) for the ceremony. Less traditional ideas include borrowing library books for ceremonial readings, borrowing a friend's home for the reception, wearing a friend's shoes, or even borrowing your mother's own wedding gown!
Nearly anything can be borrowed for your wedding, so get creative! Remember, the whole point is to remember that you can count on your friends and family, and to receive continued good luck from long-married friends and family!
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