Something borrowed, something blue
And a silver sixpence in her shoe.
A well-known rhyme amongst bridal parties, this too can add even more meaning to one of the most memorable days of your life.
The tradition started in the Victorian Era in England, each one of the tokens being a symbol of good luck. Something old symbolizes continuity within the bride's family and the past. Some new signifies optimism and hope for the bride's future, and something borrowed is usually something borrowed from a long-married friend or relative, so that the good future may carry over to the new bride. It is also a reminder for the bride that she can depend on her friends and relatives.
The blue item is the most well-practiced element of the rhyme, which is a century old tradition, originating in Ancient Rome. Roman brides wore blue to symbolize their love, modesty, and fidelity. This is why the Virgin Mary is often depicted wearing blue, but since her attachment to blue, it has also been associated with purity. Before the 19th century, brides often wore blue gowns, instead of white. There is even an Irish Proverb that states "Marry in blue,lover be true."
The last part of this rhyme is "a silver sixpence in her shoe." This element represents wealth and financial security, something that everybody is hoping for in a new marriage. This tradition actually started with Scottish grooms placing a silver coin under his foot for good luck. The chances of good luck were enhanced further, if it was placed under the left foot, in fact. Today, many companies make keepsake sixpences for this occasion, and sometimes dimes or copper pennies are used, as well.
This week, and next week, we're going to spend some time looking into different, unique ways that this rhyme can be incorporated into your wedding ceremony. Keep your eyes peeled. Next, something old.
